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Happy New Year Unlearners!
Thanks for making last year a year of growth, unlearning, and great conversations. You've made this little corner of the internet feel like home.
Here's to another year of questioning everything we thought we knew.
If last year taught us anything, it's that success comes from unlearning old beliefs.
First conversation of the new year: Luck isn't what you think it is.
Life isn't fair. But luck isn't random either.
If you're reading this, you probably think some people are just born lucky. They always seem to be at the right place, at the right time, with the right people.
I used to think the same thing. Then I started paying attention.
After my family lost everything during my childhood, we had to rebuild from scratch. Growing up in that environment forced me to study how luck actually works.
I watched my "lucky" friend lose his million-dollar business overnight, while my "unlucky" friend built a thriving company during a recession. The difference? One waited for luck. The other engineered it.
After a decade of analyzing patterns that separate consistently lucky people from everyone else, I've discovered that luck isn't something that happens to you. It's something you engineer.
Here's what I've learned about manufacturing luck:
1. Delete Your "Try List"
Most people waste time trying everything. That's not how luck works. Figure out what you absolutely don't want to do next year. Your "Don't Do" list is more powerful than your "To Do" list. When you stop doing things that don't serve you, you create space for luck to find you.
2. Be F*cking Boring
The most successful people I know have incredibly boring daily lives. They're not at trendy parties or flashy events. They're quietly working, learning, and building. Boring consistency compounds into extraordinary results. Your boring life today creates your exciting future.
3. Work Where The Competition Isn't
Everyone's chasing the same opportunities in overcrowded spaces. Real luck happens in the unsexy corners where others won't look. That "boring" industry no one wants to touch? That's your goldmine.
4. Buy Your Luck
Yes, I said it. Sometimes you need to invest in luck.
Whether it's paying for that course, buying better tools, or hiring help - smart money spent creates lucky breaks.
Stop being cheap with your future.
5. Create A High-Quality Filter For Life
Most people complain about bad luck because they have terrible filters. They:
Hang out with toxic people
Read garbage content
Work on the wrong things
Chase short-term wins
Create better filters. Your luck is only as good as your standards.
6. Master One Unfair Advantage
Everyone has at least one. Maybe you're:
Great with people
Incredibly persistent
Good with technology
Able to spot patterns
Find yours and double down on it. That's where your luck multiplies.
7. Build Your Luck Network
Luck doesn't happen in isolation. It happens through people. The more high-quality people you know, the luckier you get. But here's the thing - you need to be valuable to them first.
8. Stop Being Everyone's Therapist
Being the person everyone dumps their problems on doesn't make you a good friend. It makes you a free therapist.
Lucky people have boundaries. They save their energy for opportunities, not drama.
9. Make Peace With Being Disliked
The fastest way to kill your luck is trying to make everyone happy. Most successful people I know are hated by someone. That's the price of standing out. If nobody dislikes you, you're playing too safe.
10. Learn To Recognize Patterns
Luck isn't random. It follows patterns. Start paying attention to:
When good things happen to you
Where your best opportunities come from
Which people bring positive changes
What times you make your best decisions
11. Get Uncomfortable
Luck loves discomfort. Every time I feel too comfortable, I know I'm not growing. The most "lucky" breaks in my life happened when I was way out of my comfort zone.
12. Kill Your Ego
Your ego is luck's worst enemy. It makes you:
Too proud to ask for help
Too smart to learn new things
Too good for "small" opportunities
Too right to admit mistakes
13. Build A "Luck Portfolio"
Just like investing, don't put all your luck in one basket. Spread it across:
Different skills
Multiple income streams
Various networks
Different industries
14. Stop Making Excuses For Unlucky People
You'll never get lucky hanging around people who blame everything on bad luck. They're contagious. Their victim mindset will infect you.
15. Learn To Read The Room
Lucky people can sense opportunities before others see them. They know when to:
Push forward
Pull back
Pivot completely
Stay quiet
Make noise
16. Be The First To Help
Luck has a weird way of finding people who help others without expecting anything in return. Not because of karma, but because helping others puts you in the path of opportunities.
17. Master The Art of Timing
Sometimes it's not about what you do, but when you do it. The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing. Pay attention to timing. It's an unfair advantage most people ignore.
18. Create Systems, Not Goals
Lucky people don't chase goals. They build systems that make good things inevitable. A goal is "I want to be lucky in business." A system is "I talk to three new potential clients every day."
19. Learn To Quit Fast
Most unlucky people stay too long in bad situations. They:
Keep toxic friends
Stay in dead-end jobs
Hold losing investments
Maintain failing projects
Learn to recognize when something isn't working and quit fast.
20. Master The Art of Asking
Unlucky people wait to be noticed. Lucky people ask for what they want. They ask for:
Help
Opportunities
Introductions
Feedback
Second chances
21. Be Ridiculously Prepared
Luck favors the prepared. When an opportunity shows up, lucky people are ready. They've done the work before it was required. They've built the skills before they were needed.
22. Create Value First
Stop asking what you can get. Start asking what you can give. Lucky people create value before they expect anything in return. They know the money, opportunities, and luck follow value.
23. Learn To Tell Your Story
Lucky people know how to make their past experiences sound interesting. They can turn:
Failures into lessons
Problems into opportunities
Mistakes into wisdom Your story attracts your luck.
24. Stay Healthy
You can't be lucky if you're always sick or tired. Health isn't everything, but everything is nothing without health. Lucky people:
Sleep enough
Exercise regularly
Eat real food
Manage stress
25. Take More Calculated Risks
The biggest difference between lucky and unlucky people? Lucky people take more shots. They try more things. They take more calculated risks. They know that every "no" gets them closer to a "yes."
Remember: Luck isn't a magical force that randomly picks winners. It's a skill you can develop. A game you can learn to play better.
Will all of these work? Maybe not. But that's not the point. The point is to stack enough things in your favor that luck has no choice but to find you.
You don't need all 25 of these to work. Even just one could change everything in 2025.
Now stop reading about luck and go create some.
What's your strategy for getting luckier this year? Let me know in the comments.
Until tomorrow,
Cammi
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So happy I stumbled upon your writing this morning and this list. It speaks to so many of the things which I have held as a mindset and then when I was burned out (not healthy) started to lose sight of. Could you elaborate more on #6 and #13 and how these work together?
Happy new year ❤️❤️❤️