Why People Don't Get You (And It's Not Their Fault)

Behind every smile lies a universe of unseen struggles.

Dear Unlearner

The loudest screams often happen in soundproof rooms.

Your mind is that room, bursting with thoughts and feelings. Your inner world is written in invisible ink. It’s crystal clear to you, but completely hidden from everyone else. You know yourself mostly from the voice in your head.

You often feel misunderstood.

You feel like people don't get your struggle. They don't see the late nights, the self-doubt, the constant battle between your ambitions and your anxieties. They can't feel the weight of expectations you've placed on yourself.

You feel like people don't see your efforts. The world sees the final product, the polished presentation. They don't see the hundred drafts, the failed attempts, the moments of frustration. They don't witness the countless hours of practice, the sacrifices made, the opportunities foregone. They don't know about the times you've wanted to give up but pushed through anyway.

You feel like people don't care about your feelings. Most people are too c…