The Daily Unlearner by Cammi Pham

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a new year's resolution nobody talks about

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Cammi Pham πŸ‹
Jan 02, 2026
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Dear Unlearners,
Happy New Year from Toronto!

I just got home from an hour walk in -16C after my yoga class. My face is still thawing. But there's something about starting the year half-frozen that feels right. Like a reset button you didn't ask for.

I’ve been thinking a lot about fresh starts lately. Not the typical β€œnew year, new me” stuff. Something deeper.

Every January, we make resolutions about what we want to do differently. Go to the gym. Eat better. Save more money. But we rarely think about what we want to tolerate differently.

And that’s the thing. The way people treat you isn’t random. It’s learned.

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